Starting preschool is a big step for your child—and for you. A little preparation can make the first weeks calmer and more positive for everyone. Here are practical, parent-tested ways to get ready.
1. Talk about what to expect
In the weeks before school begins, talk about preschool in simple, positive words. Explain that they will make new friends, play, sing, and learn with a teacher. Avoid focusing only on “being good” or “not crying.” If your child has questions, answer them honestly. A short visit to the school (if possible) or looking at photos of the classroom can make the place feel familiar.
2. Build a consistent daily routine
Children feel safer when they know what happens next. Start shifting wake-up time, meals, and bedtime toward the schedule you’ll use when school starts. Practice the morning routine a few times: getting dressed, having breakfast, and leaving at the right time. This reduces stress on the actual first day.
3. Encourage independence
Preschool days go more smoothly when your child can do a few things on their own. At home, gently encourage:
- Dressing: Putting on and taking off shoes, pulling up trousers, and managing a simple jacket or bag.
- Eating: Using a spoon, opening a lunch box or snack, and drinking from a bottle or cup.
- Toileting: Saying when they need to go, washing hands, and pulling clothes up and down.
Praise small wins. It’s normal if they still need help sometimes—teachers expect that.
4. Visit the preschool together
If the school allows, bring your child for a short visit before the first day. Show them where they will put their bag, where the bathroom is, and where they’ll sit or play. Meeting the teacher briefly can also help. Even one visit can make the environment feel less new when they start.
5. Read books about preschool
Simple picture books about going to school can open conversations and normalise feelings. Look for stories that show a child feeling nervous at first and then having a good time. You can borrow from the library or ask the school if they recommend any titles.
6. Keep goodbyes short and warm
On the first days, say a clear, cheerful goodbye and tell your child when you’ll be back (e.g. “after snack” or “after lunch”). Avoid slipping away without saying goodbye—that can increase anxiety. If your child cries, it’s common; staff are used to supporting children through this. A consistent goodbye routine (e.g. one hug, one wave at the window) helps over time.
These steps don’t guarantee zero tears, but they do help many children (and parents) feel more ready. At Bright Little Kids we work closely with families to make the transition into preschool as smooth as possible. If you have questions about readiness or the first day, get in touch—we’re here to help.
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